Uncertainty about career choice not uncommon
Q. I think I made a mistake. I start college in August. I’m pleased with my school choice. I made it into Penn State’s main campus. That’s not a mistake. My possible mistake is that I’m going into nursing and I’m not sure that’s the path for me. What happened is every adult in my life – parents, grandparents, teachers, coaches, even my youth minister at church – asked me repeatedly over the last two years, “So, what are you going to do?” I didn’t know. I still don’t know. So, I picked nursing out of the air. The only nurse I really know is you. I haven’t seen you since sixth grade, when you taught me. We’ve texted some (mostly in eighth grade, which was a messy year for me), and you were always there. You made it sound wonderful to be a nurse, so I thought, why not? Then, it hit me I’ve never asked you about clinical nursing. My guidance counselor suggested last year that I shadow a nurse, and I didn’t think I needed to do that. Now, I’m wondering. What if I don’t like nursing? What if it’s not my thing? My dad said not to worry, that I don’t need to declare a major until sophomore year, but what if he’s wrong. What if I’m stuck? – 18-year-old
Mary Jo’s Response: I’m honored you remembered me. You’re not stuck, my friend. Life changes. I started out as an RN but discovered I loved teaching, so returned to school to obtain education and counseling degrees, then focused on health education. Nursing has broad opportunities, from clinical work in hospitals and clinics, to public health, to home health, to education, to nurse anesthetists and nurse practitioners. You will evolve and grow as you learn.
I researched Penn State’s nursing program. Unlike some colleges, first year students are admitted directly into the nursing major. This is a competitive application; congratulations on making the cut. It is possible to transfer out of nursing, although I suggest you give the major a try before making such a choice. Returning to the college of nursing would not be as easy as leaving it. You still have time to shadow an RN. May I suggest you contact your local hospital, your physician’s office, or a clinic near you? Shadowing may ease your mind.
I respect your choice, no matter. Here are some thoughts for 18-year-olds (you and others):
Making a life choice can be challenging: Our culture does seem to surround juniors and seniors with many questions about their futures. As adults, we should step back a bit and give young people space. You do have decisions to make, but not knowing what you want to do for your life’s work at 18 isn’t uncommon. Many young people do not know. You’re not alone. Communicate with adults in your life and share your indecision. They can help you find experiences that will help you decide.
You have time. Yes, it feels daunting to be starting an educational path that is unknown, but you will have time to grow and assess if nursing fits you. Take it one class at a time. Connect with your college adviser. Share your concerns. Focus on learning. You’ll take courses before you engage with patients. Penn State has an excellent nursing program; clinical experiences generally begin during the fall semester of sophomore year. University Park students will spend their third or fourth year of study at the Penn State Milton S. Medical Center in Hershey. By the time you reach your sophomore fall classes, you should be better prepared.
Good luck. Being a nurse is a wonderful way to live your life, but you are not locked in!
Have a question? Send it to Dr. Mary Jo Podgurski’s email podmj@healthyteens.com.